7 Things That Surprised Me About Life in Saudi Arabia (From a New Expat’s Perspective)

Before moving to Saudi Arabia, I thought I had a pretty good idea of what to expect. I read articles, watched YouTube videos, and even spoke with people who had lived here. Still, nothing compares to seeing it with your own eyes and living it day by day.

As a new expat, I’ve quickly learned that Saudi Arabia is full of surprises — some challenging, many beautiful, and all part of a truly unique experience. Here are seven things that surprised me most after arriving in the Kingdom.

1. The Deep Sense of Hospitality

One of the first things I noticed was how kind and generous people are. In Saudi culture, hospitality is not just about manners — it’s a way of life. Whether you are a guest in someone’s home or a stranger at a coffee shop, people are warm, respectful, and often eager to help.

On more than one occasion, I was offered Arabic coffee and dates just for walking into a small store or visiting a government office. The phrase "Ahlan wa sahlan" (Welcome!) is more than a greeting — it’s a genuine invitation to feel at home.

2. How Safe I Feel

Safety was a big concern before I moved. Like many people, I had heard mixed reports about security in the Middle East. But I can honestly say that Saudi Arabia feels incredibly safe — especially in major cities like Riyadh, Jeddah, and Dammam.

The crime rate is low, and you’ll often see families out late into the evening enjoying walks, food, or entertainment. I’ve taken taxis alone, walked through markets, and lived in city apartments without once feeling threatened or uncomfortable.

3. The Mix of Tradition and Modern Life

Saudi Arabia is a country in transition. You’ll see women in abayas walking next to teenagers with smartphones and sneakers. Old souks (markets) sit just down the road from luxury malls and skyscrapers. It’s a country that holds onto its traditions while moving boldly into the future.

Government reforms under Vision 2030 have changed things quickly — from allowing women to drive to opening cinemas and promoting tourism. As an expat, it’s fascinating to witness these changes firsthand.

4. The Role and Visibility of Women

Before coming here, I had the impression that women were rarely seen in public spaces. But what I’ve found is far more dynamic. Women in Saudi Arabia are now working in banks, shops, tech companies, and hospitals. They’re attending universities, driving, and taking leadership roles.

While the culture still has strong gender roles and social boundaries, the progress is real. It’s inspiring to see so many Saudi women shaping the future of their country with pride and purpose.

5. The Café and Dining Culture

Saudi Arabia has an amazing café scene. From artisan coffee shops to themed dessert bars, the café culture here is booming. Riyadh, in particular, has hundreds of Instagram-worthy spots where young people gather in the evenings for coffee, tea, or light snacks.

Restaurants are just as impressive — offering everything from traditional Saudi dishes like kabsa and mandi to international cuisines. Whether you want Italian, Indian, American fast food, or Japanese sushi, you’ll find it all. And the best part? Many places stay open late, making evenings surprisingly lively.

6. The Climate — And How People Adapt

Saudi Arabia is hot — really hot — especially in the summer. Temperatures can soar past 45°C (113°F), and it can feel like stepping into an oven. But what surprised me is how well the country is designed to handle the heat.

Nearly every building, car, and public space has air conditioning. Malls offer shaded indoor walking areas, and even bus stops are climate-controlled in some cities. People adjust their schedules too — mornings and late evenings are much more active than the peak afternoon hours.

As someone who enjoys outdoor life, it took some adjusting, but now I understand the rhythm of the day. And believe it or not, winter in Saudi Arabia can be quite cool and pleasant — perfect for desert trips, camping, and festivals.

7. The Quiet and Peaceful Fridays

Friday is a holy day in Islam and the official weekend day in Saudi Arabia. Mornings are incredibly peaceful. Most businesses open later, and many people use the morning hours to attend Friday prayers or spend time with family. It’s a moment of calm and reflection — and a great time for a quiet walk or a relaxed breakfast.

Later in the day, things pick up with family gatherings, outings, and events. It’s a beautiful rhythm that adds balance to a typically busy week.

Bonus: How Much English Is Spoken

I expected a huge language barrier, but I was pleasantly surprised. In major cities and most workplaces, English is widely spoken — especially in hospitals, universities, and international companies. Many signs are bilingual, and customer service staff often speak enough English to help you with basic needs.

That said, learning a few basic Arabic phrases can go a long way. It shows respect and often opens doors to warmer conversations.

Final Thoughts

Living in Saudi Arabia has been full of surprises — some small, some life-changing. It’s a place where you constantly learn, grow, and challenge your assumptions. As an expat, I’ve found the experience to be eye-opening and deeply rewarding.

Whether you're considering a move here or are simply curious about what life is really like, I hope this post helps paint a more accurate and human picture. And trust me — this is just the beginning.

Stay tuned for more personal stories, expat tips, and cultural insights in upcoming posts. If you’ve experienced something surprising in Saudi Arabia, feel free to reach out or drop a comment below!

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